Rachel and Tiya enjoy smiles, music and heartfelt laughter in summer wedding celebration
A serene proposal on an Autumn swept beach, set the tone for a perfect wedding day two years later filled with beautiful music and laughter for Rachel McFarland and Tiya Moore – and they even had a little bit of rain for good luck. The pair, who are both from Omagh, were wed during a traditional wedding ceremony performed by Reverend Jonathan Cowan at Mountjoy Presbyterian Church on July 20, 2018.
Their wedding reception was held at Lough Erne Resort, Enniskillen – a place which the couple simply ‘loved everything about’. The ambience created by the peaceful setting, the food, friendly staff and gorgeous decor meant that they couldn’t imagine having their wedding anywhere else.
Rachel, who is a teacher, explained that she always knew of Tiya as they were neighbours in the park which they lived from a very young age, and both their parents were friendly with each other. However, Rachel moved out of that park aged four and it took 11 years for their paths to cross once more. But when they did meet again, in September 2009, the duo reminisced about fond times gone by and their relationship went from there.
As such, they began dating in July 2010. “From the first time we met properly, we just laughed a lot,” Rachel described. “Tiya is a very chatty person, and we never seemed to run out of things to talk about. “Tiya and I are actually quite different to each other, and I think that’s why we get on so well, they do say opposites attract. “From the beginning, our relationship was fairly laid back and we were both quite easy going, both leading a fairly simple life allowing the relationship to flourish at ease.”
The pair were together for seven years before Tiya proposed in truly romantic fashion on September 9, 2016 – the day of Rachel’s birthday. “Tiya came to see me and said we would go for a walk on the beach,” Rachel recalled. “I should have thought this strange as Tiya hates the beach, however I didn’t pass any remarks as it was a Monday night and the start of the working week, so it didn’t seem like the sort of time to pop the question.
“We went for our stroll along the beach and Tiya commented that there was more people on the beach than he thought there would have been,” Rachel added. While Rachel was oblivious to the nervous wreck that was her boyfriend, all of a sudden Tiya said he wanted to give her the other part of his birthday present. Getting down on one knee, the Omagh man gifted Rachel with the ring that she had spotted and fell in love with some time before the engagement.
It was a sparkling square cluster set diamond design, with split diamond shoulders. “I was so shocked; I definitely did not see it coming,” Rachel continued. “Little did I know Tiya had went back to the shop to purchase that ring. I loved it at the time and I still do.”
And so from then, just short of two years of wedding planning commenced. “We were certain that our wedding would take place in the summer months, and as these dates were in high demand, we started our venue hunting right away,” Rachel said. “We had our venue booked by October 2016 and rest of the main providers soon followed.
“I knew right away that I wanted my bridesmaids in grey, and so I opted for a neutral palette with the vibrancy in the flowers. “It was a little stressful, hoping that everything would go well when it was all together.”
Hoping for a very traditional wedding, the pair wanted the men to wear tails and bridesmaids to don a 1950s style dip-hem dress. And happily, Rachel knew exactly what wedding gown she wanted so she loved her experience of dress shopping. These cherished moments were shared with her mum, Adele and they visited two different shops which allowed Rachel plenty of time to see and try on all she needed.
However the chosen gown, from McElhinneys in Ballybofey, was plain and straight with a fitted shape and feminine cowl neck. It boasted sparkling diamonté detail around the waist line and delicate beads draped from each shoulder at the back. “My inspiration came from the bridesmaid dress that Pippa Middleton wore to her sister’s wedding in 2011,” Rachel described. “I knew from then, that was the style of dress I wanted. “The back of my chosen dress was what sold it to me; I fell in love with it as soon as I put it on.”
Rachel said that she found the week leading up to her wedding day very emotional, but she enjoyed having lots of people around at her parent’s house for a catch-up before the hustle and bustle of the big day. “I am a very sentimental person, and all I could think about was leaving home which I really struggled with,” she said. And even though she was worried that she wouldn’t be able to hold her-self together on the morning of her wedding, her maid of honour, Cherith Marshall and two bridesmaids – Lisa Moore and Anna Shaw – helped to keep the house calm and relaxed.
In fact, the morning turned out to be a bundle of laughs. “Tiya was very relaxed, as he usually is, but his best man, Garry Monteith, was the complete opposite as he was the most nervous out of everyone,” Rachel recalled. Rachel and the girls arrived at the church in traditional wedding cars, which battled the light, constant drizzle and blustery breezes along the way. But with umbrellas at the ready, Rachel was a perfect picture as she walked down the aisle with her father, Kenneth.
“Tiya was slightly emotional and had to take a few deep breaths to compose himself as I arrived beside him at the front of the church,” Rachel said. “The hardest bit for me was when my Dad handed over my hand to Tiya as I knew then ‘this is it’.” She added, “Our ceremony had a very happy, relaxed feel and our minister was excellent. He did a great job of keeping everyone calm and having everyone in the right place at the right time.
“The theme was ‘music’ as that’s what I love, and those who provided the music made our ceremony everything we had every dreamed of. “We had a harpist and a singer at our ceremony and they played and sang a beautiful rendition of ‘Amazing Grace’ and this fostered the romantic atmosphere beautifully.”
Rachel said her wedding day was simply perfect from start-to-finish, and she wouldn’t have changed a thing. “We still talk about our wedding day and how we wish we could do it all over again,” she smiled. “We were so overwhelmed by all our guests’ generosity, and although we were on a high during and after our wedding, we were also extremely humbled by the amazing family and friends who helped make our wedding day everything we had ever anticipated and more. “Finally, I would like to thank both our parents for all their help and support both through the wedding planning process and throughout our lives. We wouldn’t be where we are without them.”
• The Finer Details •
Wedding dress: McElhinneys, Ballybofey.
Wedding band: Joseph Rea.
Hair stylist/salon: Gemma Armstrong, Scizzorhandz, Newtonstewart.
Make-up artist: Alison Duncan.
Bridal Shoes: Jimmy Choo.
Head piece: Parchment & Pearls.
Veil: McElhinneys, Ballybofey.
Bridesmaid dresses: Creative Ideas, Cookstown.
Groom’s/groomsmen’s suits: Bowes Bros, Omagh.
Cake supplier: Sandra Marshall (chief Bridesmaid’s mum).
Cake decorations: Three-tiered naked cake decorated with summer fruits -strawberries, blueberries, blackberries, raspberries and red currants along with some fresh roses which matched the bouquets.
Florist: The Daisy Chain.
Church: Mountjoy Presbyterian Church, Mountjoy.
Reverend/ Priest: Reverend Jonathan Cowan.
Transport: C4 Wedding Cars, Cookstown.
Reception: Lough Erne Resort, Enniskillen.
Number of guests at reception: 135.
DJ/band: The Untouchables featuring Brian Giffen.
First dance song: ‘Close Your Eyes’ by Michael Buble.
Photographer: Jude Browne Photography.
Other entertainment: Catherine Hamilton, soprano and harpist; singer Zolene Mayberry; Mountjoy Presbyterian Church Praise Band; Saxophone player, The Saxophone Lounge.
Honeymoon: Kenya for one night; safari in Masi Mara for three nights; Zanzibar for seven nights and Dubai for three nights